Everyone should be aware of this:

“Commitment is meant to commit”.

When you commit, it’s not just saying yes to someone or/and to something, it’s saying yes to yourself.

Relationship, career, purpose… What are you committed to?

Here we are going to explore all areas of commitment and how committed you are at this.

When you commit to yourself you can commit to everything else.

How committed are you?

What are you committed to? Is it to a relationship, family, career, job?
What you are committed to, it is affecting all areas of your life, and all areas of your life are affecting what you are committed to. We can’t ignore this.
Even if you commit to nothing, something will appear to force your evolution.

We are social beings, and isolation doesn’t help in evolution. Taking time on your own it helps to connect with yourself, but prolonging this too long gets you out of balance and out of track. We need relationships (family, friends, mates…) in order to grow and evolve.

 Many people when having children are being forced to do things differently. Priorities change and they face problems that will force evolution too.

Relationships with true commitment have their goals met when they are in true alignment. Their goals are in the present. These goals involve them growing together.
This is not dependency. This is a responsibility because of being aware that we are one.

How is your life showing you “commitment”?

People show you how you are.
Life is showing you what you express.
What you give, you receive.
Be aware of what you are projecting. This is not to feel bad about it. This is a wake-up call, so you can stand for yourself, and change the focus from what you want to attract into being the projector of what you want to experience.

This is a progression, it might not happen overnight, but the process of staying truly committed will allow you to grow and become the person you want to be with (couple, job, friends). People match your frequency. Be aware of what you are emitting through your thoughts, emotions, and actions. Make sure they are in alignment with your true being.

How by you committing to yourself you commit to everything else

When you commit to yourself you allow others to commit to you. You stand firm in your ground and allow others to feel safe with you. You are the foundation for healthy relationships by having inner commitment first. You allow others to be the same. You resonate with what you want to experience.

When you commit to yourself, to your life, and to that thing that only you can see: your dreams, then you align your dreams to your goals, your plans, your strategies, and YOUR TRUTH from now. You don’t compromise your truth on it. You speak your truth and use it directing your actions towards your goals, and your goals towards your dreams.

If you need more help with this, I can help you.

If you know someone who is struggling with commitment issues, please share this article with them ♡

Lots of Love,

Raquel.